3rd Homestudy Appointment Today

We had our 3rd apt. today. It was just me and the Social Worker (SW). She basically just asked me all about my childhood, adolescence, family relationships, etc. It went well, but some of the issues raised were really hard to think about. I've had a really rough day, LOTS of emotions today. I haven't had a day this hard in SUCH a long time. Also, I'm really starting to notice how much our Korean child will "stand-out". The past few days I've encountered some comments (regarding race) that I'm not quite sure how to handle. I've been reading a lot about ways to handle racist comments, rude adoption comments, etc. I just don't want my future child to get hurt by peoples jokes and teasing weather it's "friendly fire" or just plain racism. I've also been asked SO MANY TIMES "Why don't you just have one more of your own?" I realize that no harm is meant by this question, but this baby WILL be "my own". For future reference, never ask this question to someone who is adopting! Regardless, we are one step closer to bringing our baby home! YIPEE!